Adam had an orthopedist appt on Wednesday due to me freaking out that "all the other parents" of kids with hemi take their kids to the ortho yearly and we skipped last year. I figured he should probably just get a quick look at and monitor his lower limb discrepancy so that in 10 years if/when they do surgery, they know his growth rate or whatever. I really don't have any concerns...just thought it was another one of those things I should be doing, ya know? Anyway...we get there and Adam is fine. He asks me a couple of times if it was my foot doctor and I said no - they want to take a peek at your legs and he said no, but he was not freaking out..just - no. We get into the exam room and the nurse asks a couple of questions and said a doctor would be in shortly and to take Adam's shoes, socks, and pants off. As soon as she left the room and I go to grab a shoe, he started screaming and crying that he didn't want to take his clothes off. I said, "They just want to look at your cute, little, legs." wherein he responded, "NO, I don't want them to see my cute, little, legs!" I had his pants half-way off when the resident guy came in but Adam was still screaming and crying. He asked a couple more questions (yelling over Adam) then Dr. VonStein came in. Adam was now screaming, crying, AND kicking! I told them that if someone could just grab his pants while I held him up...and Dr.V. responded "I don't want to get kicked! It's not worth it. We'll just watch him walk back out to the lobby." Well...Adam kind of walked really slowly and then ran through the reception area still (you guessed it) crying and screaming. I asked the Dr. if I should reschedule this or come back yearly and she said to only call if we have any concerns. OK!
Next day - Adam had his 3 year regular doctor check-up. I was getting really worried that we would have a repeat of the day before so Dave came with us. I think we may have bribed Adam with a milkshake after if he was good. The nurse was fantastic and Adam let her weigh and measure him. (36 lbs, 39 inches - about 88th percentile for both) She had him do a couple of things in the room like draw a circle and a cross on the bench paper, stand on one foot, hop and he thought that was fun. Then Dr. Niland came in and he was fine! She's so laid back anyway that I think it just helps the kids too. I don't know why there was such a big difference in the 2 days but he's done with her for a year. Next week is ultrasound and blood work time so hopefully that will go well, too.
Last night was Trick-or-Treat night and we stayed in our neighborhood. It was FREEZING so we put a couple of layers on under Adam's Buzz Lightyear costume and took a jacket just in case. I had my winter coat on and I was still cold but Adam refused to put his jacket on for the little over an hour we were out. Our part of the neighborhood is relatively quiet but we went to the couple of neighbors we knew. Then we turned the corner to the "other" part of the neighborhood and, like last year, was just hopping with kids and families. Adam would go up to doors without us if he got in a big group of kids but then he's be upset when those kids were faster than him. "Wait for me Spiderman!!" A couple of times while he was in the group, he would be paying so much attention to the other kids that he didn't see the treat dropped into his bag so he would continue to stand there. It was hilarious! AND people would feel bad and give him some more! My kid is smart! There was a boy, maybe 8 years old, who stopped and told Adam he like his costume. We asked what he was and he said he didn't know (he was dressed all in black with a kind of creepy mask and a Wolverine claw hand). Then he reached into his bag of treats and gave Adam one and said to have a nice Halloween! It was soo sweet! It was a really fun night since this is the first year Adam was really into it! We may be going over to Dave's friend's house Sunday for Trick or Treat there since it will be a little warmer.
Today, Adam's class had a little Halloween party (which we were not there for) and a costume parade at the end of the day. Lots of princesses, a fireman, a crying robot, and Buzz. I asked him if he knew all the names of the kids in his class and he said yes. Then I pointed to the picture and he only knew the girl standing next to him (Alyssa who he sees at the Community Center all the time) and the boy on the end, Ethan (he has 2 Ethan's in his class).









